Thanksgiving traditions
My family focuses on getting
together and spending time together so the holidays are very important for us.
Thanksgiving is one of our favorites because it is an opportunity to see
everybody. Typically we will alternate years between spending it with my father’s
side of the family and my mother’s side. This year, however, is going to be
very different because I will be going to Bakersfield to spend the holiday with
my boyfriend and his family.
When it comes to traditions and
food, my family does not vary or have any passed down recipes. Our turkey is
made in the oven, and typically we will also have a ham, for variety and to
feed the whole family. Our stuffing is not made with the actual insides of the
turkey but instead from hand with bread, celery, sausage, and other seasonings.
Our other dishes are made fairly standard, vegetables, dinner rolls, sweet
potatoes, mashed potatoes, and gravy.
We always say a prayer before our
dinner. When we celebrate thanksgiving with m mother’s side of the family, we
have to have a “buffet style” instead of a sit down dinner because there are so
many of us – at least 30 people. After we say a prayer and before we eat
dinner, my grandmother recites a poem that was passed down from her mother.
This is our thanksgiving tradition. Just recently, us grandchildren have been
trying to memorize this poem so it may be said at our future thanksgiving
meals. Like I mentioned before, my family is huge on spending time together and
being able to take this poem and share it with our future families will help to
keep the tradition alive. This is the
poem:
jams and jellies, peaches, quince
Purple grapes and apples red,
Cakes and nuts and gingerbread
That's Thanksgiving
Turkey! oh, a great big fellow!
Fruits all ripe and rich and mellow;
Everything that's nice to eat,
More then i can now repeat
That's Thanksgiving
Lots and lots of jolly fun,
Games to play and races run;
All as happy as can be
For 'tis happiness, you see
Makes Thanksgiving.
We must thank the one who gave
All the good things that we have,
That is why we keep the day
set aside, our mammas say,
For Thanksgiving
The poem reflects our kind of
Thanksgiving. It talks about food, about having fun, and giving thanks to God.
After eating dinner and recovering, all of the kids head to the church, which
is across the street, and play on the playground, play wall ball, or capture the
flag. When we are done running off the food we head back to the house for
dessert J
it always results in a really fun time with all of us kids and cousins.
Another tradition that we have is
to all meet up again the day after Thanksgiving to have leftovers. It is one of
our favorite times because 1) we get to all hang out again and 2) we get to eat
delicious food again!
It will be very interesting to be
with another family for Thanksgiving this year. My boyfriend, Ian, and his
family deep pit a turkey. All the men go to a neighbor’s house and deep pit the
turkey while the women stay and cook the food. Since Ian’s family is also very
large, they eat a more “buffet style” and he says that the stuffing has more
ingredients than what my family usually has. I am very excited for
Thanksgiving, not only because it is a fantastic holiday, but because it will
be in a new atmosphere and with new people.
I hope that everybody has a happy and safe Thanksgiving!